Risks Online
In Mexico, almost everyone aged 15 and 16 uses the internet from a cell phone, and there are people there who want to do harm or deceive. Recognizing the signs early, not facing them alone, and knowing who to turn to is the best defense there is.
Online violence does not affect everyone equally: young women more often receive sexual harassment, threats, and blackmail involving intimate images. That is why it is worth looking at these risks through a gender lens as well.
Cyberbullying: when a joke stops being a joke
The "joke" that went too far
A joke is a real joke when everyone laughs, including the person on the receiving end. If someone puts up with it in silence, pulls away, or asks you to stop, it is no longer a joke. If you notice it went too far, stop, delete what you posted (after saving a screenshot as evidence if needed), and apologize.
Explain what cyberbullying is and how it differs from a one-off argument between classmates: think about repetition, the intention to cause harm and the imbalance…
Explain what cyberbullying is and how it differs from a one-off argument between classmates: think about repetition, the intention to cause harm and the imbalance between the attacker and the victim.
Where is the line between a joke between friends and bullying? Explain what role is played by the other person genuinely laughing, enduring in silence or asking to stop,…
Where is the line between a joke between friends and bullying? Explain what role is played by the other person genuinely laughing, enduring in silence or asking to stop, and what to do if you notice that a "joke" has crossed the line.
In a group chat that a classmate is not part of, several people laugh at him daily and send you screenshots. Analyse whether staying silent and watching makes you a…
In a group chat that a classmate is not part of, several people laugh at him daily and send you screenshots. Analyse whether staying silent and watching makes you a bystander or a participant, what real options you have (not playing along, warning him, speaking to a teacher) and what you would do.
Grooming and sextortion: the deception of gaining trust
If you feel uncomfortable, that is the moment: set a boundary, don't continue the conversation, save screenshots, and tell a trusted adult (mom, dad, guardian, teacher, counselor). It is never your fault.
Explain simply what grooming is: an adult posing as a minor to gain the trust of a young person. State three early warning signs that should raise the alarm and who to…
Explain simply what grooming is: an adult posing as a minor to gain the trust of a young person. State three early warning signs that should raise the alarm and who to tell if you detect them.
A stranger contacts a 14-year-old online, gains their trust over several weeks through compliments and ends up asking for intimate photos "as a sign of friendship".…
A stranger contacts a 14-year-old online, gains their trust over several weeks through compliments and ends up asking for intimate photos "as a sign of friendship". Explain what deception tactic is being used, why one should never comply with that request, and what the victim should do from the very moment they feel uncomfortable.
A "friend" met through an online game insists on switching to a private video call, asks for it to be "your secret" and starts asking increasingly personal questions.…
A "friend" met through an online game insists on switching to a private video call, asks for it to be "your secret" and starts asking increasingly personal questions. Explain what pattern of escalation these signs show (privacy, secrets, isolation from the group) and where and how to set boundaries.
A stranger who obtained an intimate image of someone threatens to share it unless they send more material or money. Explain why giving in always makes the situation…
A stranger who obtained an intimate image of someone threatens to share it unless they send more material or money. Explain why giving in always makes the situation worse, what evidence should be preserved, who to report it to and why shame should not win: the fault lies entirely with the extortionist.
What to do and who to turn to
Next, block and report the account on the platform. If there are threats, blackmail, or intimate images, you can report it with your screenshots to the cyber police or to the Public Prosecutor's Office (Ministerio Público).
Official resources in Mexico
| Resource | What it offers | When to use it |
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| Cyber Police (Guardia Nacional, line 088; there are also state units, such as the one in Mexico City) | Free assistance and guidance on crimes on the internet: sextortion, grooming, fraud, identity theft. It receives reports from minors and their families. | When someone threatens you, blackmails you, an adult with a fake profile contacts you, or you are asked for intimate images. |
| Línea de la Vida (800 911 2000) | Free, confidential emotional support and guidance. | When the harassment or blackmail makes you feel anguish, sadness, or like you can't take it anymore. |
| 911 | Single emergency number. | When there is immediate danger: threats of assault, an in-person meeting with someone who is pressuring you. |
The specialized line for internet safety for minors and families is the Cyber Police: call 088 or look on gob.mx for the current reporting channel. Numbers and services change, so always verify on official sites (gob.mx) what is current in your state before relying on them. If you don't know whom to call, start with a trusted adult or your school counselor.
The figure shows who a minor can turn to when experiencing a serious online problem. One of the resources is covered up: it is a free and confidential helpline,…
The figure shows who a minor can turn to when experiencing a serious online problem.
One of the resources is covered up: it is a free and confidential helpline, specialising in internet safety for minors and families. State which one it is and describe two initial steps that should always be taken in a serious online situation, even before calling.
Someone threatens you online ("if you don't do what I say, I'll post your photos"). List what you should and should not do in the first few minutes — reply or not reply,…
Someone threatens you online ("if you don't do what I say, I'll post your photos"). List what you should and should not do in the first few minutes — reply or not reply, save or delete, tell someone or keep quiet — and justify each decision.
Research and note down three official support resources in Mexico for online problems (helplines or support websites), stating what each offers and in what type of…
Research and note down three official support resources in Mexico for online problems (helplines or support websites), stating what each offers and in what type of situation it should be used.
A classmate receives hurtful messages every night from an anonymous account and is thinking about deleting all her social media accounts without telling anyone. Explain…
A classmate receives hurtful messages every night from an anonymous account and is thinking about deleting all her social media accounts without telling anyone. Explain why keeping quiet and isolating oneself worsens the situation, what evidence should be kept before deleting anything and who she should tell.
A friend is experiencing online harassment but does not want to tell her family because she fears they will take away her cell phone "to protect her" and she will lose…
A friend is experiencing online harassment but does not want to tell her family because she fears they will take away her cell phone "to protect her" and she will lose contact with everyone. Explain how you would talk to her and her family so they can protect her without isolating her, and what arguments you would use.
Dependence and everyone's responsibility
First steps: talk about it without scolding, set agreed-upon schedules, get back to activities away from screens (practice, the band, going out with friends), and, if it doesn't improve, ask for support from the school counselor or a health professional.
The role of those who watch
In bullying there are almost always witnesses. Staying quiet in a chat where people are making fun of someone normalizes the bullying. You can refuse to play along, let the affected person know, support them privately, and talk to a teacher. While a platform takes weeks to resolve a report, that close support and the evidence you've saved are what protect the most.
A friend misses training sessions and stops hanging out with the group to keep playing online; when he cannot play, he becomes irritable and sad. Indicate which signs of…
A friend misses training sessions and stops hanging out with the group to keep playing online; when he cannot play, he becomes irritable and sad. Indicate which signs of tech dependency appear in this case and what initial steps you would suggest to him and his family.
A platform allows users to report harassment accounts, but the reports take weeks to be resolved. Evaluate what the victim, their friends and the school can do in the…
A platform allows users to report harassment accounts, but the reports take weeks to be resolved. Evaluate what the victim, their friends and the school can do in the meantime, and reason why the role of bystanders who witness the harassment without participating is decisive.
A classmate says: "By setting my profile to private and not adding strangers, I'm already completely protected; and if I ever experience cyberbullying or blackmail, the…
A classmate says: "By setting my profile to private and not adding strangers, I'm already completely protected; and if I ever experience cyberbullying or blackmail, the best thing to do is delete the chat, block them immediately, and not tell anyone to avoid trouble". Rebut their position by pointing out a serious flaw in their idea of prevention and another in the way they react to a problem. Then, design a digital self-protection plan for your class: propose three technical prevention measures that go beyond making a profile private and three ordered steps for immediate action (preservation of digital evidence, communication channels, and reporting) when facing an online aggression situation.
The school's protocol for a cyberbullying case
Many schools and campuses have a protocol: a route of steps agreed on in advance so that no one has to improvise when there is a case. Although each campus adapts it to its own rules, it almost always has four stages.
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Report. The victim, a witness, or the family notifies a designated person: the counselor, the person who coordinates school coexistence, or the principal's office. It helps to have a simple, confidential channel, so that reporting doesn't feel scary.
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Evidence. Screenshots with the date and profile are saved and kept in the custody of the person handling the case. They are not forwarded or shown to the class, because spreading them repeats the harm.
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Protection of the victim. While the case is investigated: the victim is listened to without judgment, their family is notified, they are accompanied (counseling, psychological support), and contact with the person bullying them is avoided. They are never punished or isolated "for their own safety."
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Work with the person who bullied. The people involved and their families are spoken to, the measures in the school rules are applied proportionally, and the goal is for them to acknowledge the harm, make amends, and change their behavior. Afterward, follow-up is done to confirm the bullying has stopped.
If there are threats, blackmail, or intimate images, the campus must also guide the family to report to the authorities.
Design your school's action protocol for a cyberbullying case: who receives the report, what is done with the evidence, how the victim is protected during the process…
Design your school's action protocol for a cyberbullying case: who receives the report, what is done with the evidence, how the victim is protected during the process and how the bully is dealt with afterwards.
Beyond the screen: rules, platforms, and manipulation
"It's just the internet" is a dangerous mistake: behind every profile there are people, and the harm of cyberbullying or sextortion (anxiety, isolation, fear of going to school) is real. Two self-protection rules follow from this: what you post or send can slip out of your control, and what you experience online deserves the same attention as what you experience in person.
Four ideas for analyzing difficult cases:
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Prevention is not just a private profile. Two-step verification, different passwords, and checking who can see your content also help. When a problem arises, you need to save evidence, block, and tell someone.
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Platforms. Moderating content protects victims, but too much deletion can limit freedom of expression. We can demand clear rules, fast response, transparency, and special protection for minors.
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Manipulation and isolation. Messages like "we're your real family, don't tell your parents" use false belonging and secrecy to cut the bond with the people who actually protect you. Help starts by listening without judging and reconnecting with trusted people.
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Digital lynching. Punishing someone's mistake en masse repeats the logic of bullying: a group against one person. Demanding accountability is valid if it is proportionate, takes context into account, and avoids humiliation.
Analyse the phrase "after all, it's only the internet: nothing that happens there is real life". Reason why this is a dangerous mistake, relate it to the real-life…
Analyse the phrase "after all, it's only the internet: nothing that happens there is real life". Reason why this is a dangerous mistake, relate it to the real-life consequences of cyberbullying and sextortion, and deduce two self-protection rules based on your analysis.
Analyse the responsibility of platforms regarding harassment: should they moderate and remove content even if that limits freedom of expression? Weigh up both values and…
Analyse the responsibility of platforms regarding harassment: should they moderate and remove content even if that limits freedom of expression? Weigh up both values and propose three specific requirements (speed, transparency, special protection for minors) that platforms should meet.
Analyse the phenomenon of "digital witch-hunting" (or online mobbing): thousands of people publicly punish someone's mistake en masse. How is it similar to the…
Analyse the phenomenon of "digital witch-hunting" (or online mobbing): thousands of people publicly punish someone's mistake en masse. How is it similar to the harassment it claims to fight? Reason about proportionality, context and empathy, and propose a way to hold people accountable without public shaming.
Analyze the following message sent in a closed messaging group to a student going through a rough patch: "We really understand you here, we are your real family; don't…
Analyze the following message sent in a closed messaging group to a student going through a rough patch: "We really understand you here, we are your real family; don't talk about this with your parents or teachers because they wouldn't understand, and use our secret code so no one tracks the chat". Interpret what mechanisms of psychological manipulation and isolation lie behind these words (false sense of belonging and validation of harmful behaviors), predict what consequences cutting off contact with their real environment will have for this person, and design a support strategy: how you would talk to them without putting them on the defensive and what specialized channels (such as INCIBE's 017) you would turn to.
It is often said that anonymity is to blame for online harassment. Evaluate this idea: would harassment disappear with verified identities? Support your argument with…
It is often said that anonymity is to blame for online harassment. Evaluate this idea: would harassment disappear with verified identities? Support your argument with what happens in the playground, where nobody is anonymous, and with the value of anonymity for vulnerable individuals, concluding with a nuanced position.
Back to the beginning: recognizing the signs, not facing them alone, and turning to trusted people and institutions is what truly protects you online.